Blame keeps us stuck.

It often starts
with a complaint.

A difficult day.

A frustrating situation.

A person
who disappointed us.

That is part of life.

But if we stay there,
something shifts.

The complaint
becomes blame.

And blame
has a way
of keeping us
exactly where we are.

As long as
someone else
is responsible
for our life,
our happiness,
or our future,
we quietly give away
our power
to change it.

There is nothing wrong
with acknowledging
that someone hurt you.

Or that life
has been unfair.

But healing begins
when we ask,
'What do I do
from here?'

That question
moves us forward.

Blame rarely does.

It keeps us
looking backward.

Growth
asks us
to look ahead.
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Focus on growth.